5 Reasons Why Naughty Kids Should Be Admired But not Hated

　　1.They are independent

　　他们独立

　　All too often, ‘naughty’ is a word we use for kids who think for themselves. While conformity is admired at school, our greatest entrepreneurs, scientists and artists do things their own way.

　　通常来说，“淘气”一词经常用指那些只为他们自己考虑的孩子。在学校就希望能够统一一致，但是我们伟大的企业家、科学家、艺术家通常都是按照他们自己的意愿做事。

　　2.They are creative

　　他们很有创造力

　　Naughty kids don’t just think for themselves, they often think differently from others. Their creativity cannot be curbed. While adults get told to ‘think out of the box’ these kids have never been in the box in the first place.

　　淘气的孩子不会只会自己着想，他们通常都和别人想的不一样。他们的创造力不能被扼杀。当成年人告诉他们“跳出固定思维”的时候，这些孩子就是首先不会受到局限的。

　　3.They are sensitive

　　他们的敏感

　　Often the most sensitive kids are the ones who are written off as naughty. They can’t stand pain or injustice, and so kick off into a tantrum when they see it. In little children, this is often on their own behalf. As they grow up, and their ability to empathize develops, their sensitivity can lead to deep acts of generosity towards others in need.

　　通常最敏感的孩子是那些被标榜为调皮的孩子。他们不能忍受痛苦和不公平，所以当他们遇见痛苦和不公平的时候就会大发脾气。在孩子时期，他们都是想到自己的利益。随着他们的慢慢长大，这种能力就会逐渐发展，他们的敏感性就会变成一种满足别人需要的一种慷慨。

　　4.They are strong

　　他们很坚强

　　Human beings are social animals. Having the willpower to stand up to social pressures is impressive. Kids who go against the grain, following their own interests and speaking their mind are demonstrating courage and strength.

　　人类是一种群居动物。有毅力站起来迎接社会压力是让人印象深刻的。违背别人想法做事的孩子，会跟着他们自己的兴趣，说他们的心里话来表现他们的勇气和优点。

　　5. They want to be understood

　　他们渴望被理解

　　Kids often get loud or have a tantrum when they feel disrespected or unheard. Although this may not be the most constructive way to get their point across, these kids have found a way to communicate their wants. Often, children will calm down if they feel you’ve understood them, even if the answer is still “no.”

　　孩子通常会大声说话或者当他们觉得不被尊重或者没被听到的时候会发脾气。虽然这也许不是最好的表达观点的方式，但是这些孩子却已经找到了他们想要的方式。通常来说如果你理解了他们的意思，即使你的答案是否定的他们也会平静下来。

编辑：张雨

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